Friday Check-In (let’s call it a check-in from now on)

Black and white photograph of a police-fire callbox to which someone has affixed "googly eyes" and anthropomorphized it.

©2021 David Bivins

Whether or not you celebrate any end-of-year stuff or not, this is a hell of a time for a lot of us. Holiday parties, family, shopping (or being in proximity to shopping), it’s all… a lot.

Take a moment today to take stock. Are you taking care of yourself and your needs? Shoring up your boundaries if necessary? 

I’m finding that my daily meditation is a little rocky. More things are coming up in my head like “oh, I have to remember to email so-and-so” or “when do I have to ship that gift to Michigan to get it there in time?” etc. But it’s so important to tell myself that I have this slice of time just to sit. Those things come up and I see them and I watch them dissipate. Usually I have my journal open in front of me before I meditate so I can jot down anything that’s weighing on me before I start my timer. But this week it’s not been enough. And that’s OK. I still sit, and sometimes I feel like I have only seconds of stillness within my 10-15 minutes that I give myself. Even a few seconds of feeling fully arrived, in this moment, is good.

Do you have a meditation practice? I recommend giving it a try. Even if you only have a minute to just sit, it’s still worth it.

I love you,

David

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David Bivins

David Bivins is a certified recovery coach with lived experience in recovery. He’s a writer, photographer, and musician.

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